Pride and Prejudice · 1813

Elizabeth Bennet

The quick, laughing heroine of Pride and Prejudice

Elizabeth Bennet is the heroine of Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice: the second of five daughters of a Hertfordshire gentleman, twenty years old, clever, playful and certain of her own judgement, until a proud man named Mr Darcy proves her wrong and she has the honesty to admit it.

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Elizabeth Bennet at a glance

Name
Elizabeth Bennet, “Lizzy” to her family, “Eliza” to Miss Bingley
Age
20: she tells Lady Catherine she is “not one-and-twenty” (chapter 29)
Family
Second of the five Bennet sisters of Longbourn, Hertfordshire
Fortune
“One thousand pounds in the 4 per cents”, after her mother’s death
Closest to
Her elder sister Jane, her friend Charlotte Lucas, and her father
Proposals
Mr Collins (refused), Mr Darcy (refused, then accepted)
Marries
Mr Darcy, and goes to live at Pemberley
Famous line
“My courage always rises with every attempt to intimidate me.”

Who is Elizabeth Bennet?

Elizabeth is the second daughter of Mr and Mrs Bennet of Longbourn, a small estate a mile from the market town of Meryton. Because the estate is entailed on a male cousin, the five sisters will have almost nothing when their father dies, which is why their mother’s whole business in life is getting them married. Elizabeth is her father’s favourite. In the very first chapter he says “Lizzy has something more of quickness than her sisters”; her mother, by contrast, likes her least of all her children.

Austen introduces her through one quality above all: “a lively, playful disposition, which delighted in anything ridiculous” (chapter 3). She reads character for a hobby, argues for the pleasure of it, and refuses to be bullied by anyone, from Mr Collins to the great Lady Catherine de Bourgh. She is also physical and impatient in a way polite society notices: when Jane falls ill at Netherfield, Elizabeth walks three miles across muddy fields to nurse her, and Bingley’s sisters spend the evening sneering at her petticoat, “six inches deep in mud”.

Elizabeth Bennet portrait, Morning at Longbourn

“Follies and nonsense, whims and inconsistencies, do divert me, I own, and I laugh at them whenever I can.”

Elizabeth Bennet to Mr Darcy Netherfield, chapter 11

Jane Austen herself adored her. In a letter to her sister Cassandra on the novel’s publication in January 1813 she called Elizabeth “as delightful a creature as ever appeared in print”.

How old is Elizabeth Bennet?

Elizabeth is 20 for most of the novel. When Lady Catherine presses her on her age at Rosings, she answers with a smile: “I am not one-and-twenty.” That makes her about eight years younger than Mr Darcy, who is 28, and about two years younger than Jane, whom Lydia calls “almost three-and-twenty”. Lydia, the youngest, is fifteen when the story opens.

Elizabeth Bennet reading Jane’s letters, illustration by Hugh Thomson
Elizabeth reading Jane’s letters in Kent, the morning Darcy calls to propose.Hugh Thomson (1860-1920), Pride and Prejudice, George Allen, 1894 · Public domain · Source

Twenty was a perfectly ordinary age to be unmarried in Elizabeth’s world. What makes her position urgent is money, not age: with a fortune of one thousand pounds she cannot expect a rich husband, and her friend Charlotte Lucas, at twenty-seven, accepts the absurd Mr Collins precisely because she has no other prospect of a home of her own.

Elizabeth Bennet’s fatal flaw: quick judgement

If Darcy is the pride of the title, Elizabeth is the prejudice. Austen’s first title for the novel was First Impressions, and Elizabeth’s are fast, witty and often wrong. Wounded by Darcy’s remark at the assembly (“She is tolerable: but not handsome enough to tempt me”), she decides he is proud and unpleasant, and when the charming Mr Wickham tells her Darcy cheated him of a living, she believes every word, because she wants to.

Her other weakness is vanity, and she names it herself. After reading Darcy’s letter in chapter 36 she sees that she has been flattered by Wickham’s attention and offended by Darcy’s neglect, and has reasoned from both:

Elizabeth Bennet portrait, A Walk at Rosings

“Till this moment, I never knew myself.”

Elizabeth Bennet After reading Darcy’s letter, chapter 36

A few lines earlier: “vanity, not love, has been my folly.” It is the turning point of the novel, and the reason readers trust her afterwards.

What makes Elizabeth a heroine rather than a cautionary tale is what she does next. She does not excuse herself, and she does not swing to the other extreme. She revises her opinion of Darcy slowly, on evidence. She tells Jane the truth, but refuses to make his letter public, because “every particular relative to his sister was meant to be kept as much as possible to myself”.

Elizabeth Bennet and Mr Darcy

Their story is a sequence of misreadings. At the assembly he slights her; at Netherfield she teases him and he begins to admire her “fine eyes”; at the Netherfield ball they dance and quarrel about Wickham; at Rosings he keeps finding her on her solitary walks, and she thinks he is checking up on her. Then, at Hunsford parsonage, he proposes, and she refuses him in the most famous rejection in English fiction.

Elizabeth Bennet portrait, The Netherfield Ball

“I had not known you a month before I felt that you were the last man in the world whom I could ever be prevailed on to marry.”

Elizabeth Bennet to Mr Darcy Hunsford, chapter 34

His letter changes her mind about the facts; Pemberley changes her heart. In Derbyshire she sees his house, hears his housekeeper praise him, and meets a changed man who is kind to her aunt and uncle. When Lydia elopes with Wickham, Darcy quietly arranges the marriage and pays for it, and Elizabeth learns what he has done only by accident. In chapter 58 he proposes again, and she accepts.

Elizabeth Bennet and Mr Darcy after their engagement, illustration by C. E. Brock
“Now, be sincere; did you admire me for my impertinence?” Elizabeth teasing Darcy after their engagement (chapter 60).Charles Edmund Brock, Pride and Prejudice · Public domain · Source

Did Elizabeth really love Darcy?

Yes, and the novel takes care to prove it, because even her own family doubts her. When Jane asks how long she has loved him, Elizabeth jokes that she must date it “from my first seeing his beautiful grounds at Pemberley”, then answers seriously. Her father, who believes she dislikes Darcy, warns her that she “could be neither happy nor respectable, unless you truly esteemed your husband”, and she convinces him by telling him everything Darcy has done. She chose him once she knew him, having refused him with Pemberley on the table.

Who falls in love with Elizabeth Bennet?

Elizabeth’s admirers, in the order they appear
Admirer What happens Chapter
Mr Darcy Admires her “fine eyes” from chapter 6; proposes at Hunsford and is refused; proposes again and is accepted 6, 34, 58
Mr Collins Her father’s cousin and heir proposes the morning after the Netherfield ball. She refuses; within three days he has proposed to Charlotte Lucas and been accepted 19, 22
Mr Wickham Charms her with his story against Darcy, then transfers his attentions to Miss King, who has ten thousand pounds 15, 26
Colonel Fitzwilliam Enjoys her company at Rosings, but warns her, gently, that “younger sons cannot marry where they like” 30, 33

Refusing Mr Collins was a real risk. He would inherit Longbourn, and her mother insisted she accept. Her father’s ruling is one of the best jokes in the book: “An unhappy alternative is before you, Elizabeth. From this day you must be a stranger to one of your parents. Your mother will never see you again if you do not marry Mr. Collins, and I will never see you again if you do.”

Mrs Bennet begs Mr Bennet to make Elizabeth Bennet marry Mr Collins, illustration by C. E. Brock
“You must come and make Lizzy marry Mr. Collins.” Mrs Bennet appeals to her husband (chapter 20).Charles Edmund Brock, Pride and Prejudice · Public domain · Source

Elizabeth and Lady Catherine de Bourgh

Her finest hour comes in chapter 56, when Lady Catherine drives from Kent to Longbourn to forbid a rumoured engagement to her nephew. Elizabeth is not engaged, and will not say whether she would accept him. Every threat is met with perfect calm.

Lady Catherine de Bourgh portrait, Mistress of Rosings

“He is a gentleman; I am a gentleman’s daughter; so far we are equal.”

Elizabeth Bennet to Lady Catherine Longbourn, chapter 56

She ends the interview with a sentence that could stand for the whole character: “I am only resolved to act in that manner, which will, in my own opinion, constitute my happiness, without reference to you, or to any person so wholly unconnected with me.” Lady Catherine reports the conversation to Darcy, and it gives him the hope he needs to ask again.

Lady Catherine de Bourgh confronts Elizabeth Bennet at Longbourn, illustration by C. E. Brock
“Miss Bennet, I insist on being satisfied.” Lady Catherine at Longbourn (chapter 56).Charles Edmund Brock, Pride and Prejudice · Public domain · Source

Elizabeth Bennet’s best quotes

Line Said to Chapter
“I could easily forgive his pride, if he had not mortified mine.” Charlotte Lucas and her family 5
“I dearly love a laugh.” Mr Darcy 11
“You could not make me happy, and I am convinced that I am the last woman in the world who would make you so.” Mr Collins 19
“There is a stubbornness about me that never can bear to be frightened at the will of others. My courage always rises with every attempt to intimidate me.” Mr Darcy, at Rosings 31
“I had not known you a month before I felt that you were the last man in the world whom I could ever be prevailed on to marry.” Mr Darcy 34
“Till this moment, I never knew myself.” Herself 36
“He is a gentleman; I am a gentleman’s daughter; so far we are equal.” Lady Catherine 56

More from every character in our collection of Pride and Prejudice quotes.

Who played Elizabeth Bennet? Elizabeth on screen

Elizabeth Bennet is one of the most sought-after parts in English drama, and each generation has had its own. These are the major screen Elizabeths, from Hollywood in 1940 to Netflix in 2026.

Elizabeth Bennet and Mr Darcy on screen
Year Production Elizabeth Bennet Mr Darcy
1940 MGM film Greer Garson Laurence Olivier
1980 BBC series Elizabeth Garvie David Rintoul
1995 BBC series, written by Andrew Davies Jennifer Ehle Colin Firth
2005 Film, directed by Joe Wright Keira Knightley Matthew Macfadyen
2026 Netflix series, written by Dolly Alderton Emma Corrin Jack Lowden

Jennifer Ehle won the BAFTA for Best Actress for the 1995 BBC series, and many readers still think hers the most faithful Elizabeth: quick, warm and amused, with the “fine eyes” Darcy cannot stop admiring.

Keira Knightley, close to Elizabeth’s own age of twenty, was nominated for the Academy Award for Best Actress for Joe Wright’s 2005 film, which plays up Elizabeth’s restlessness and the muddy, lived-in life of Longbourn.

In Netflix’s six-part series, released on 3 December 2026, Emma Corrin plays Elizabeth, with Jack Lowden as Mr Darcy, Olivia Colman as Mrs Bennet, Rufus Sewell as Mr Bennet and Freya Mavor as Jane.

Elizabeth Bennet’s dress and costume

Austen tells us almost nothing about what Elizabeth wears, apart from the mud on her petticoat, but the novel’s world is the 1810s, and a young gentleman’s daughter of modest means would dress like this:

  • By day: a high-waisted round gown of white or pale printed muslin, falling straight from just under the bust, with long or short sleeves and a chemisette or fichu filling the neckline.
  • For walking: a short, close-fitting spencer jacket or a longer pelisse over the gown, a straw bonnet, gloves and sturdy half-boots, which Elizabeth, the great walker, would wear out quickly.
  • For a ball: a lighter evening gown in silk or fine muslin, short puffed sleeves, long gloves, satin slippers, and flowers or ribbons in her hair, as at the Netherfield ball.

For the whole wardrobe, with fashion plates from 1809 to 1811, see our guide to Regency era fashion.

Four questions

Are you an Elizabeth?

Four questions from the novel. Find your match among the characters of Pride and Prejudice, then sit for their portrait.

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Question 1 of 4

At a ball, you…

  • Dance every single dance
  • Stand apart and judge the company
  • Make sure the grandest person there knows you
  • Look after whoever has been left out
  • Hope one particular person notices you

Your questions

Questions about Elizabeth Bennet

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How old is Elizabeth Bennet?

She is 20. At Rosings she tells Lady Catherine “I am not one-and-twenty” (chapter 29).

Who does Elizabeth Bennet marry?

Mr Darcy. She refuses his first proposal at Hunsford, accepts his second near Longbourn in chapter 58, and goes to live with him at Pemberley in Derbyshire.

What is Elizabeth Bennet’s fatal flaw?

Prejudice, sharpened by vanity. She judges Darcy on a first impression and believes Wickham because his story flatters her. After Darcy’s letter she admits: “vanity, not love, has been my folly.”

What is Elizabeth Bennet’s most famous line?

“My courage always rises with every attempt to intimidate me,” said to Darcy at Rosings in chapter 31. Her refusal of his first proposal is a close second.

Did Elizabeth Bennet really love Darcy?

Yes. She refuses him once while he is still proud, and accepts him only after his letter, Pemberley and his secret help for Lydia have shown her who he is. She persuades both Jane and her father that she truly loves him.

What was the age gap between Elizabeth and Mr Darcy?

About eight years: Elizabeth is 20 and Darcy is 28.

Is Elizabeth Bennet based on Jane Austen?

Austen never said so. She shared Elizabeth’s wit and her love of the ridiculous, and she called Elizabeth “as delightful a creature as ever appeared in print” in a letter to her sister.

What would Elizabeth Bennet wear?

A high-waisted muslin round gown by day, with a spencer or pelisse, bonnet, gloves and half-boots for walking, and a lighter silk or muslin gown with short sleeves and long gloves for a ball.

Who played Elizabeth Bennet?

The best-known screen Elizabeths are Jennifer Ehle in the 1995 BBC series, Keira Knightley in the 2005 film and Emma Corrin in Netflix’s 2026 series. Greer Garson played her in the 1940 film, and Elizabeth Garvie in the 1980 BBC series.

Who plays Elizabeth Bennet in the Netflix Pride and Prejudice?

Emma Corrin, opposite Jack Lowden as Mr Darcy. The six-part series, written by Dolly Alderton, is released on Netflix on 3 December 2026.

A Regency lady at a candlelit ball

My courage always rises with every attempt to intimidate me.

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